INFIDELITY

Cheating... lying... hiding... deceiving... the list is endless of being bad elements involved in infidelity.

Is it still cheating if you tell your partner you did it? HELL YES! Okay so you've told the truth yet you still did it!

On a serious note, why do people commit infidelity? They aren't satisfied with their partner? Their sexual needs aren't fulfilled? They are unhappy? Are these Reasons??

I believe they are just mere excuses. I mean if you are unhappy in a relationship you should have the decency and courage to break-up with your partner and move on rather than play the field and cheat on them. It is selfish and inconsiderate in deceiving your partner and in my opinion shows lack of self control and a flaw in one's character.

People commit adultery for many reasons, the excitement of getting caught and secrecy involved plays a huge part, why else are most affairs broken up once caught out in the act. People use others as an excuse or blame others for them committing adultery or being unfaithful to make themselves feel better and hide what is really wrong with the relationship. I mean if you've just had sex with someone how is it your partners fault?! It was your own decision.

I am totally against infidelity and no matter how much you try and convince me with an explanation will i change my mind... that's not happening!

Yes SELFISHNESS.. people want best of both worlds. It must be a B***H to get caught! He he he!

Information on Infidelity

I found an article by the Guardian which said some interesting facts.

"Females may be slightly adjusting their preferences away from males who are potentially more likely to cheat." The guardian

http://www.guardian.co.uk/gender/story/0,,2051909,00.html

"...professional men appear to have more affairs than other groups..."

http://www.oneplusone.org.uk/information/InfoSheets/SexualInfidelity.pdf

The research on Infidelity, statistics as well, can never really be accurate. People may not tell the whole truth, hide some facts or even exaggerate so it is hard to get a full picture however we can get some idea from these facts.