Response to 'One night stands' by Jay

http://jay-being-bad.blogspot.com/2007/03/one-night-stands.html

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NO! 'every one DOES NOT LOVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!'

That was a little judgemental and quite a biased opinion to make, however from a guys perspective i can see how it works! (no offence meant!)

I mean i disagree to one night stands (especially if your in a relationship, but that comes under infidelity then don't it?) however i am aware that one night stands are common, with drinking, drugs, night life it must have become part of the socialising scene so to speak.

Any way diseases aside i think it's kinda de-grading 'shagging around' don't it show that you don't have much self respect not that 'look i can pull' mentality. I mean surely wouldn't you be happier with 1 woman to satisfy your needs than 'sleep around'. But then it's about self control, boredom and experimentation i guess?

There's a question:- If you do have one night stands, why? Is it purely sex? What do you get out of it, (apart from the obvious of course).

A lot of people don't like 'strings attached' and the 'emotional baggage' that comes with one partner)

Personally i think it's immorally wrong but that's my opinion, i know people will disagree. It is also glamourised i reckon, with the guys 'bragging' to others they 'got in there,' how many people they slept with and so on. Yet the same can be said about many other topics we have covered in the 'Being Bad' module, from smoking to piercings there is some sort of glamourisation involved to attract people.

I wouldn't sleep around i find it disgusting . I mean you don't know where these people have been and what they've caught... eeeeh! How are you sure that if you have sex with some one you haven't probably slept with 20 others!